Attracting Women - The Right Way And The Wrong Way

Many men out there try to buy a woman's attention and affection by dining and wining her. In most cases, this kind of overly generous treatment achieves a result which is opposite from the one desired by men. Instead of being attraction to the guy, women become bored with and even annoyed with the guy who is overly "nice" to them. This causes men a lot of frustration since female reaction to overly generous treatment seems to go against what one would expect to happen logically.

The truth is that there is nothing surprising about that kind of female behavior, if one understands the nature of attraction and what triggers this emotion in women. Indeed, a much more effective way to attract a woman is not by what you can give her but by demonstrating to her who you are! A woman will be truly attracted to a guy only if she respects him.

Respect from a woman is gained when she admires a man's lifestyle, goals, ambition, demeanor, and behavior. A man's character and personality is what gains him respect from people in general and women in particular.

Therefore, having interesting insightful opinions on different subjects, having education and interesting work, having a wide ranger of intersts in arts, music, sports, your style, and your ability to be social and fun are far more important to attracting a woman than trying to "buy" her attraction with expensive dinners and gifts.

Remember: what you buy to a woman does not evoke her attraction for you, because to be attracted to you, she must have reasons to find YOU attractive and not the items that you buy her.

Arkady Itkin
http://practicalhappiness.com
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