How To Apply Pheromone Colognes

Using pheromone colognes or perfumes can give you an advantage in social situations. Here are some basic tips and guidelines for applying and using pheromone fragrances.

First of all, be sure to carefully read and follow any special application instructions that come with the pheromone product you use. There are many different types of pheromone products you can buy.

Apply the pheromone perfume to the pulse point areas of the body. Pulse points or hot spots are areas where human body produces greater body heat. These include the wrists, base of the neck at the throat, center of the chest, inner part of the elbow, the hair and scalp, and behind the ears. Women can also apply pheromone products to thighs, ankles and the backs of the knees.

Also, try applying the pheromone colognes to your clothing instead of your skin. Due to your body heat pheromones applied to the skin can evaporate very quickly. Furthermore, pheromones applied to the skin can also get washed away by sweat and destroyed by bacteria. Some androstenone-based pheromone colognes, can only be applied on clothing, and never on the skin. Bear in mind that the pheromone smell will be on there for a longer period of time, and it may take several washes to come off completely.

Always use the correct amount of pheromones to achieve the results you desire and beware of the "body odor" effect. Androstenone-based products have a smell which many women perceive as invasive. Remember that many males can't detect this smell at all, however most women can smell it very well.

Also, try to avoid pheromone build-up. This happens when your skin absorbs so much pheromones from your applications over a period of time - that you notice a significant drop off in pheromone effectiveness. To prevent this - apply products to your clothing, or, if you are applying pheromones directly to the skin, wash the application points on your body well.

The Secret of The Law of Attraction

Like attracts like - that is a universal law. This universe is governed by laws such as gravity. It doesn't matter if you are a good person or a bad person - if you fall off a building, gravity will make you fall and pull you down towards the ground.

It is the same with the Law of Attraction. Whether you perceive yourself to be a good person or a bad person does not matter. As long as you feel emotionally happy, you will attract the things that you think about at that moment. Happy thoughts will attract happy people and circumstances. Negative thoughts will attract negative people and circumstances.

So there is a science of getting rich. Yes, it is a science and it is therefore a predictable result, just as physical matter obey the laws of mechanical physics and sub atomic particles obey the laws of quantum physics.

In fact, it is our understanding of quantum physics that has helped us understand the Law of Attraction. Quatum Theory has alluded to the fact that there cannot be a universe without mind or an observer entering into the equation. Results from quatum physics experiments are in fact somehow influenced by
by the observer of the experiment.

Therefore, the ramifications are awesome: it means we have the ability to consciously or unconsciously influence our reality and manifest the things and experiences we want in our lives. It doesn't matter if you believe this or not, it will happen.

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The Law of Attraction - Preparing Your Inner Mind Soil for Growth and Expansion

Jewel of the Month: Zoisite

Zoisite was first discovered in Austria towards the end of the eighteenth century and was named after the mineral collector Freiherr Von Zois. Zoisite's green color comes from the presence of chromium and vanadium and it forms in rough masses. Zoisite masses occasionally have Ruby scattered throughout the stone. Zoisite stimulates fertility and if Ruby is present it increases potency. Zoisite stimulates the crown chakra and the sacral (2nd) chakra, which is associated with fertility. Zoisite assists with decomposition of negativity and transforms the negative energy into positive energy fields, transforming destructive attitudes into constructive attitudes. Zoisite assists us with our creativity and helps us to realize our own ideas and desires.

Jewels of Life:

Spring is the time that gardens are being prepared for planting. In preparation for planting seeds and the growth of new seedlings, the gardener takes special care in his soil preparation. The gardener provides mulch to help retain moisture, composted yard and food waste and manure to fertilize and add essential nutrients to the soil. The gardener knows that a healthy, fertile soil will provide high yields of crops, flowers and hardy trees. Poor soil provides undernourished, diseased plants that yield poorly. The gardener knows the importance of having fertile soil before planting the seeds for new growth. What are you doing to provide fertile soil for the seeds of your ideas and dreams? Are you experiencing doubt and fear about planting your seeds of creativity or are you filled with joy and excitement? The energy of Zoisite will assist you in the process of turning your inner soil into fertile ground that is ready for planting.

Take your fears, doubts, negative thoughts and attitudes and send them into the ground for Mother Earth to compost and transform into fertilizer for your inner soil. Take some time to go out into your garden or on some grass, close your eyes and visualize yourself sending those fears, doubts and negativity into the ground. Feel this negative energy, this waste going out from the soles of your feet into the earth. The "souls" of our feet are our "soul" connection to the earth. Take a deep breath and feel the positive, nurturing energy rising back in through the soles of your feet from the Earth Mother. Take that wonderful, positive energy into your body to nourish your soil in preparation of planting your seeds of creativity.

Nature imitates herself: a grain thrown into good ground brings forth fruit: a principle thrown into a good mind brings forth fruit. –Blaise Pascal

Freedom Begins With The Act Of Forgiveness

I can imagine the thoughts and feelings that may rise up in reading this title, but

before you judge this article base solely on the title, I encourage you to please keep reading!

We have either heard or said these statements "forgive and forget", "let it go". Easier said than done – however, if we know why we should forgive, then taking steps to activate forgiveness then becomes doable. Without a doubt at one time or another we stand in need of desiring to be forgiven, or having to forgive another. Sometimes many times over, and though I believe there are varying levels or depths of forgiveness, the need remains the same.

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (Bible quote) I find that when I'm dealt a blow and feel like I'll never recover, that quote is on my fridge as a reminder for many reasons, but that is one of them. I'm not saying that I forgive immediately, but eventually I do because I would want the same treatment when, not if, but when I hurt some.

I've lived with hurt, nursed the pain, encouraged self-pity and intended that the person who hurt me would pay. I waited, and waited as the months turned into years and my bitterness grew. My reward was self-destruction, time and energy wasted as I remained trapped in my self made prison.

Making the decision to stop this destructive cycle was my gateway, first class ticket to freedom. Depending on the depth of the hurt, the pain may take a while to lessen, the thoughts may take a while to lose their grip on the mind, but it can be done. Yes, you can walk free from the pain of your past or present hurt. You decide! Think about it – the only person you're punishing is you…no, not the person who hurt you- sure, they did an awful thing, but you don't have to remain there. You can change your dwelling place, your clothes, etc. and you can make the decision today to change this area as well, and walk free.

You may not forget, but the effects will stop the control over you. Forgiveness frees you and it's the most vital step towards your wholeness. Enough time has passed, don't put it off any longer – stop letting that hurt control you.

Your freedom, my freedom begins with the act of forgiveness, and together we reap the rewards!

Spiritual Detachment And Presidential Politics

How does one walk in spiritual detachment in a world in crisis? The question assumes spirituality requires political detachment. I am not sure that it does. I am also not sure it does not. But in certain circumstances, it is almost a requirement.

The 2004 presidential election was especially compelling because so much was at stake—and only in retrospect have we actually realized how much. The dawning awareness that Exxon-Mobil and the US have some responsibility regarding global warming is only now taking its place in American's mindset beside its blunder of the war in Iraq.

The 2004 election of George Bush would definitely extend policies that contributed to these problems. We in America knew this; and it was because of these and other issues that the 2004 presidential election was so important—or so it would seem.

Note: Along with spiritual detachment, questions such as determinism and free will should be considered here.

Many of us have a sense of witnessing events once previously unimaginable, i.e. the unashamed US torture of others, the denial by the US that habeas corpus is guaranteed, that the planet Earth may have exceeded the tipping point where the effects of global warming are irreversible, etc.

The awareness of such has only increased since the 2004 US presidential election; but a prescient sense of foretelling or foreboding preceded that event, and that's why the election appeared so important to so many—at least at the time..

When the election results became known, when it was obvious that the election had been handed to George Bush Jr., what many us were afraid would happen actually had. Four more years was no longer a slogan. It was a reality as real as hearing that a restraining order against a violent boyfriend had been denied and what could happen next could no longer be prevented.

A state of impotent fear and political despair is quite dissimilar to spiritual detachment. Whereas fear and despair may be but existential reactions to temporal realities set in motion by the apparent separation that necessarily precedes the ultimate state of one-ness, they are rarely perceived as such when.events such as the 2004 election occur.

Spiritual detachment in such times is almost impossible. But for Martha and I, on November 3rd, the day after the election, we achieved it. True spiritual detachment was given to us.

In that darkest of days (note: even darker days may yet be in the offing) Martha and I were lifted out of political despair into a state where the events of November 2nd could be tolerated and accepted, a state—where if not detachment itself—it was close enough to the real thing to suffice.

Martha and I were gifted into spiritual detachment not because we had so regularly practiced sadhana that rote spiritual exercise had come to our rescue. No, we were lifted into spiritual detachment because the ALL-KNOWING UNIVERSE had caused us to see the movie, Huckabees, two days before and somehow in the daze of November 3rd, we KNEW we had to see that movie again and SOON.

So that afternoon, when apparently all (if not all, then most) of our fears had come to pass, we hurried to again see Huckabees. And there, in the darkness of the theater, the LIGHT that was Huckabees transported us to another dimension where transient realities such as political elections were given their just and limited due.

For myself, the question of spiritual detachment and political involvement is still unresolved. But if Phil Jackson, the coach of the Los Angeles Lakers, a student of the art of zen, can night after night make it through the last two minutes of a gut-wrenching ego-driven win-lose sport, then I know that while detachment is not a constant, it can be enough, sometimes just enough, to get us through the night or day as GOD sees fit.

No Jokes

Your subconscious mind has no sense of humor. It's true; your subconscious mind cannot take a joke. Not only can it not take a joke it takes everything you say and everything you think as the "God's Honest Truth". And when you think you're just joking around and you're not really serious you just may be causing more damage than you know.

In "The Power of the Subconscious Mind" by Joseph Murphy, Dr. Murphy tells of a story of a man who would jokingly say that "he would give his right arm" for something that he wanted to happen. Well, sure enough he was in an accident and he lost his right arm. He kept saying that was what he wanted. The Universe just complied. It did what it was supposed to. It followed the "Universal Law of Attraction". Like it says in the movie "The Secret"--- "Your wish is my command" and his wish was granted.

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So often I hear people saying things that I know they couldn't possibly want. Things like "I'm so poor" or "I just can't (you name it)-- lose weight, quit smoking, exercise everyday, whatever--- I just can't". Well of course you can't. That is what you are affirming to yourself all the time. You get what you think about. It doesn't matter if it's appropriate or not. The Law of Attraction doesn't give you what you want, it only gives you what you focus on and think about. So as you think or talk about what you don't want the Law of Attraction is bringing it to you.

The trick is to only think about and only talk about what you do want so the Law of Attraction can bring it to you.

If your current reality is not exactly what you want it to be, don't think about it, talk about it and don't look for and find justifications for why it is not what you want. Don't fight against it and argue for the limitations. No, No. Do your best not to think about it, Do your best to ignore it. Only think about how you want it to be. Reality is just an illusion. You create your reality. Think about what you do want. Only.

Using Your Vision Board to Focus the Law of Attraction On Your Goals

Vision is the most primal, and dominant of the human senses. It even shows up in mythology and spiritualism; you never hear of a mystic trying to open his inner ear, but tales of opening your inner eye to receive enlightenment abound. As such, vision plays a great role not only in how we perceive the world, but how we shape it.

Think for a moment about making first impressions, or when you're first exposed to someone, or something new. You gather more information than you can consciously process, and put that person, or that new concept into your mental framework of how the world works. This works on a deeply subconscious level; this is why when you see something out of the corner of your eye in the dark, you're likely to jump – that's your subconscious saying "That shadow might have a predator, be prepared to threaten it or run away." The basic fight or flight instinct, as it were.

However, how you see the world determines how you shape it to your will, as well. The Law of Attraction says the things you focus on are the things that you bring into your life, the things you pull to your circumstances via the Law of Attraction. And because the eyes are the centerpiece of how you focus on the world, they remain one of the fundamental ways to make the Law of Attraction work for you, and the way to use your eyes is to make a vision board.

A vision board is a collage, or, in some ways, a treasure map, of your goals and aspirations. Focusing on releasing your tension, and thinking about your goals in the present tense, go through and sort out pictures of goals you want to achieve, keywords of things you believe in and images that bring you peace, calmness and a sense of accomplishment. Try not to consciously pick. Just close your eyes, exhale, letting the tension out, and pick the first one that leaps into vision when you open them again. Use this to sift through a catalog of images of importance to you, then build a collage, from the center out – start with a central goal, and work your way out in a spiral pattern with things that will help you achieve that central goal. This process helps you break your goal down into substeps; as you select each substep, visualize what it will feel like to achieve that goal. Imagine yourself achieving it, and focus on that sensation, as you glue the piece into place.

This is a more graphical-spatial way of breaking down a project into manageable parts, and is a good visualization and relaxation technique for putting the Law of Attraction into your life and propelling you forward. When the vision board is complete, focus in on it, on the center of it, and do that same "look through the corner of your eye" trick on it to see the steps you need for success in a new perspective!

To Your Success With The Law Of Attraction

Yes, you have heard all about the law of attraction and you even fell for giving it a try didn't you? Did it work for you? I think not, so read on to why not.

That been a common theme for a very large group of people who then sit in disbelief when listening to others who claim the Law Of Attraction and the move The Secret have shown them how to improve there lives. So why the difference? Why does it seem to work for others and not for us? Yes we, the non believers, put it down to dumb plain luck, it would have happened anyway, faith not the Law Of Attraction was at play.

All of this started me wondering what could be at play to produce this variable result when the principal of the law of attraction seemed to work for about 40% of the population but not the other 60%. Well we know about 50% out of that 60% total, are those who just have no interest in the matter, never will have and will lead their lives as they are. They will go on blaming what ever or who ever they like for their lot life. They act/relate a bit like the cast system of India, this is my lot in life and that's how it is, that's how it will be.

So what of the other 50%? Why is there so many who have tried to activate the Law of Attraction in their lives and yet it hasn't worked. What makes it so difficult for us to use the Law of Attraction and how can we turn it around to get the spike we seek in our lives. We know;


>> It's not that don't have the desire/will power


>> It's not that you don't want to succeed

It's just something gets in the way. But no one talks about it. WHAT IS THE MISSING LINK????? to success and getting and getting the best from The Law of Attraction." if xxx would do this for me, and if this happen, and if that happens, and if that happens, and if that money comes in and if I could get this and if I could just understand that, then I could do this" It's just all to hard, we give it as short a period as we can accept to work or to develop the outcome required, without wanting to change anything within our belief system other than lip service to the concept.
We may have the answer to our mental development to accept changes to our belief systems through the new information being released from medical research into brain wave patterns. Oh no I hear you say, we have been here before, there are many products on the market today already that stimulate the brain. Many require you to take pills, eat food supplements, and to shell out heaps of your own money for such a small definable gain. Most effects prove short term and some long term use of certain drugs can in fact be a health issue.

So what can we do with the new technical information? Science shows that we can tell a lot about a person simply by reviewing their individual brainwave patterns. Researches have for example found that people that are very depressed have higher amounts of Alpha and Beta brainwaves than other depressed people. Those with higher Beta patterns tend towards being more focused, able to concentrate more and become quicker learners.

Where does this all lead us? Today we can improve the separate brainwave patterns through the use of technology and audio equipment. Recently Stephen Pierce of internet fame has released a series of CD's containing such audio stimulators under the name of "Optimindzation Acceleration" which will boost your Beta brain wave activity - giving you greater cognitive function. This will help your thought processes as you build on developing your attraction skills. The initial CD has been released with further CD's to follow in coming months. The results from a week of use will surprise you, as they did me, a very big doubting thomas. You will feel the difference in your daily activities and best of all you do the program while you sleep in a way that stops your conscious mind from blocking the process. What could be better than that?

As Napoleon Hill put it "There is a difference between wishing for something and being ready to receive it. No one is ready for something until they believe that they can acquire it. The state of the mind must be belief and not mere hope or wish". Unfortunately this position of wishing for some thing is all that we have. We are not prepared to actually take the time and put in the effort to ensure a change is their within our belief system.

Steve Bow concluded after several years study into mans ability that " Gods gift to us is more talent and ability than we'll ever hope to use in our life time. Our gift to God is to develop as much of that talent and ability as we can in this life time." Which means that most humans will go through life setting a goal to do what they think they can do based upon the plan that they have reasoned out. It is not a plan built on an image in their minds that they have no idea how it was going to happen. We must develop a belief system that the Law Of Attraction will work otherwise our social conditioning come into play and we will fail.

3 Simple Keys to Accelerate the Law of Attraction

“The Secret” movie awaken the world to one of the most powerful universal law – The Law Of Attraction.

Many people after watching the movie, practiced the teachings but still do not attract and experience the results they desire. Why? Joe Vitale, one of the teachers in "The Secret" movie said, "The movie (The Secret) is all about one idea. It doesn't pretend to tell you the secrets of the universe."

So what are the missing information that you need in order to activate and accelerate the law of Attraction.

I have discovered through my research on the Law of Attraction the missing keys that when put into practice will accelerate your attraction power.

The law of attraction like the law of gravity is working every moment for everyone whether you know about it or not. The first key to apply the Law of Attraction is …

Key #1 - Accept 100% Responsibility.

What this means is that whatever results you are experiencing in you life, accept 100% responsibility for attracting them into your life.

If you blame external factors for the negative results in your life today, it means that, in order for your results to change, the external factors must first change.

Isn't it easier to change something you have total control over, yourself, than to change something you have zero control over, external factors.

Here’s a mantra to live by from this moment on.. For Things To Change, First I MUST Change.

Accept 100% Responsibility for attracting the positive results into your life.

Key #2 – Aspire with Clarity

Imagine you are the Captain of a spaceship.

Your spaceship has the power to go to anywhere in the Universe you desire within minutes.What do you still need?

Will you just blast off into space without knowing your destination?

To attract your desires, you need to have a very clear vision of your goals, intentions and desires.

Without clear goals and intentions, even a powerful spaceship will not arrive at its destination.

Key #3 – Awareness of Unconscious Blocks to your Success

Do you want to know the real reason why you are not attracting the results you desire?

To illustrate the importance of Key #3, follow the instructions below.

Step 1: Write down a goal you want to achieve

Step 2: Write down the obstacles that prevents you from achieving your goals.

Step 3: Write down your thoughts, doubts, emotions about achieving your goals. The real reasons why you don’t achieve your goals are the answers you have written for Step 3.

These are your Unconscious Blocks or Counter Intentions that stop you from attracting the results you desire.

So, it is most important to be aware and clear any unconscious blocks that are in conflict with your conscious desires and intentions.

Using these 3 simple keys will definitely help you accelerate the Law of Attraction in your life

The Power Of Visualization

When working with the law of attraction, or toward success in anything we do, we first need to realize the power that our mind has in creating that success. Our ability to see our success in our minds eye is the first step toward actually accomplishing that success. The ability to visualize in your head and see yourself doing what it is you want to do or having what it is you want to have is a valuable skill and asset to have on your side. Take the time to practice visualizing and get good at it. This one skill alone pays dividends in return.

There was a study done a number of years ago with a high school basketball team that is note worthy. The basketball coach at the time split the team in half and worked with each half of the team seperately. One half of the team practiced throwing free throws over and over again. The other half of the team did nothing but visualized themselves throwing free throws. Both sides practiced their jump. Both halves practiced using their wrists properly to make a good free throw. Both sides practiced their aim and accuracy when it comes to making it in the basket. The only difference was that one half did it physically and the other half of the team did it all in their minds eye.

What were the results? The results were astounding. The half that did nothing but visualize did just as well as the half that physically practiced. Some of the players who visualized actually did even better. This is a powerful testiment of how powerful our minds can be. Of how important learning to visualize can be and how valuable such an exercise is. The most beautiful part of this is that you always have your mind with you. Everyone can find five minutes here and there through out their day to visualize everything they want in their lives.

Be careful though. Some people reading this will think that all they have to do is visualize what they want in their lives or visualize being a star athlete and their dreams will be fulfilled. Surely taking the time to visualize will help significantly, however, you have to take action with everything you want. Nothing gets done by simply dreaming about it or hoping for it. Everything takes action. The point of this though is that you must first use your mind to see what it is you want to have, do, or be. Then you must open up to opportunities and possibilities. Then we must take action when the moment presents itself. Nothing comes into the world through action that is not first a vision in someones mind. See it in your mind, then take action to make it a reality.

Attraction in Action - Focus

You've probably heard about "The Secret" and maybe know a little bit about "like attracts like" and how the Law of Attraction works, but now you're wondering how to actually put these principles into practice. How do you attract what you truly desire to have more of in your life: better relationships, improved health and wellbeing, a more satisying career, an increase in your income, or maybe just greater joy and fulfilment? Here's how to start tapping into the Law of Attraction to make that happen.

Focus on your desire...


To begin with, you need to FOCUS on your desire, which means getting really clear about exactly what it is you wish to attract into your life. To do this, it's helpful to think of the Law of Attraction as being rather like the art of photography.

To take a photo, most people just aim the camera, press a button and hope for the best. That kind of works but it's rather hit and miss, isn't it? Especially if you haven't had much practice. These days, with cameras so automated, if you snap off a few pictures then you've got a pretty good chance that at least one of them will come out okay. And with a digital camera, you can see straight away if you haven't got what you wanted anyway and can simply try again.

But think about the first camera you ever used. I bet there were lots more buttons and dials to master! Not only did you have to get your shot properly in focus and take some time with framing, you also had to think about film speed and lighting so you could get the exposure right. And unlike digital photography, when shooting onto film you didn't find out until afterwards -- when you got your film developed and printed -- whether or not your photos had even come out.

Imprint your desire...


What does this have to do with the Law of Attraction? Well, taking your cue from a good photographer who does more than simply aim the camera and cross her fingers, applying the Law of Attraction takes more than just making a wish and hoping it's going to come true. There is an art to it.

Imagine that what you're doing is making an imprint of the object of your desire onto the film of your mind. By focusing on your desire and setting a strong intention to have it, you choose the right lens for your camera and create the conditions for taking the best possible picture. Then you zoom in a bit closer and sharpen up your focus, so that you can see the picture clearly there before you in all its fine detail. And lastly, you adjust the lighting and get the correct exposure before... SNAP! -- you shoot your picture.

After that, you give your film over to the universe for developing and processing. Ultimately, you don't know exactly how your picture is going to come out, but if you allow yourself to trust that the universal laboratory is going to treat your order with loving care and attention, then you know that you're in good hands. Once you place your order like this, doors will start opening, you'll begin to notice signs and coincidences pointing you in the right direction, and gifts and resources will arrive to support you in taking action to grow whatever it is you desire.

Activate your desire...


So now you know how the Law of Attraction works, it's time to activate your desire. This is a process of conscious choice. Most people run on automatic pilot, unconsciously making all sorts of choices based on old patterns and filters, and hoping that everything will come out okay. But you're the photographer here, actively creating a picture of your ideal life for your mind to order up for you.

Here are three simple steps to supercharge your focus:

1. Select... the area of your life you wish to focus on first. Concentrate on just one thing at a time, so that you set a clear and strong intention. Imagine that you have achieved the object of your desire -- right now. Take your time to make it look/feel/sound as real as possible. Picture it in your mind as vividly as you can, draw or write it out on paper, describe it to a friend in lavish detail or even act it out for yourself.

2. Zoom... in tight on your picture. Try all the details on for size. Do you truly feel ready to allow yourself to have it? How does it feel to have it? Do you absolutely love the idea of having it? If not, then go back to step one and give it more thought or try focusing on something else instead. You have the best chance of attracting something that you're really passionate about, so make your choice count.

3. Snap! Make your picture happen. Consciously set your intention to bring it to life and attract it to you now. Remind yourself how good it feels to have it! Remember that "like attracts like" so, as you imprint this good feeling onto yourself, you project positive energy outwards. And this becomes the film or blueprint that you deliver to the universe to process and then return to you.

Keep practicing the art of Attraction and get those dreams of yours into focus!

Copyright © 2007 Judith Waller.

How to Have the Sex Appeal to Attract Any Women?

To attract a gorgeous woman, you do not need to be really good-looking, but you must need to have the sex appeal. You must know how to create the sex appeal in you, and let her fall into your web of attraction. Let me just share with you some of the tips to create the sex appeal in you.

1. Dress in a sense of style. Get a new wardrobe and be informed about fashion and what's hot.

2. Be humorous. Women love guys who are humorous and can make them laugh. Do not take things too seriously, try to smile easily and laugh more often. Even if you do not feel your best, try to think of positive things more often.

3. Be confident when presenting yourself. Confidence is the key to unlock the way to a woman's heart. It can give you the necessary presence, charisma and sex appeal you want.

4. Do not be afraid to approach people. Being shy will not help you anyway. If you want to meet new people, it is easier when you make the first move.

5. Do not force yourself to make yourself have the sex appeal. Take it naturally and just have a good time.

6. Look good. Dress in style, and change new hairstyles if possible. When you look good, it will further boost the confidence in you.

If you follow the tips above, you will find that you do not need to be very good looking to attract the most beautiful ladies. Sometimes, it depends a lot on how you present yourself and the way you talk. A guy with sweet words can attract any kind of women.

Therefore do not be intimidated by other guys in the dating game. Everyone is on the same level of playing field, just play to your strength and I will bet that you will eventually succeed in the game.

Rain On Me

"When it rains, it pours."
~ Morton Salt

I think one of the most wonderful things about being human is the common experience of living. Nobody is ever really alone in it. Everyone understands pain; there is not one person who has not suffered. Everyone understands joy; there is not one person who hasn't felt it. The Dalai Llama says this is what unifies us as people: We all want to be happy.

I don't know anyone who can't relate to being a little kid who complains to a parent about an unjust situation. "But it's not fair," we protest, and the parent invariably answers, "Life ain't fair." And yet we are expected to 'play fair' in games and judge others fairly. Rules are ubiquitous and lessons full of moral holes. As children, none of this makes a lot of sense; "life ain't fair" sounds like just another one of those standard parent-isms spoken over and over without any logical explanation. And then, somehow, somewhere along the path between being the child and becoming the adult, that mysterious phrase makes its way into our understanding and our vocabulary as well. Life ain't fair.

And one of the things about life that seems the least fair is when clusters of bad things happen all at once. When it rains, it pours. And yes, sometimes it really does pour when it rains. The last five years in particular have poured, in fact, lots of unfair rain upon my life: my best friend's suicide came in the midst of my post-partum depression and was followed closely by a diagnosis of autism in our son. Then, the steady drizzle of fallout – grief, fear, uncertainty, coping.

But a greater amount of rain has poured equally unfair blessings on my life; I'm sure I didn't deserve those blessings any more than I did the pain. Because of the very basics of my day to day existence – food, clothing, and shelter – I would be considered tremendously lucky by millions of people's standards. Then consider that I live in a free country, in a beautiful state, on a quiet street, with a car to drive and money in my pocket, and suddenly I seem even luckier. Add to that a million little things that haven't happened to me – I don't have cancer and haven't had my house destroyed in a hurricane. I haven't gone blind, had a leg amputated, or suffered a mental breakdown. I could go on. The bad stuff is finite; the blessings eternal.

Abraham Lincoln said, "People are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." In this world where rain pours both blessings and bad in a seemingly random manner, I think old Abe hit the nail on the head. We can't change where the rain pours, or how often – but we can change what we do about it, and how we allow it to affect our happiness. Even the bad stuff carries blessings - A devastating breakup frees you to find the man you meet and marry two years later. Some bad things even carry blessings we'll never be able to perceive - Your car is stolen, so you're not in it when the transmission blows two days later and causes the accident that would have killed you.

To find the blessings in every event requires a switch in perception. Instead of lamenting the loss of a friend so close she felt like a soul mate, now I celebrate the fact that I had something so precious in my life for nine years. The kind of friendship we shared comes along less than once a lifetime – some people will never experience it at all. And instead of cursing the autism which has affected my son, now I treasure the differences and gifts it bestows on our family. Autism may have taken his voice, but it has also preserved his innocence and given us an extraordinarily unique individual to raise.

This is all of course more difficult than I make it sound. Every one of us takes plenty for granted. Most people I know, myself included, have cried "why me?" at some unfairly terrible experience. But think how much richer our lives would be if we asked "why me?" every day about our blessings as well. If we all practice flowing gratitude into the world for what we do have, I am certain we will quickly become expert at that elusive perception switch – the one that allows us to tap into the joy of being alive in every moment and through every experience...even those that "ain't fair."

If it is pouring where you are, and the bad overwhelms, know this: you are not alone. Not now, not ever. There is not one person who doesn't understand the desire for happiness. We may not ever be able to fully understand one another's unique painful and joyful experiences, but we can all relate on the stronger, deeper level of simply being human. So next time it rains, share your umbrella. Or better yet – toss the umbrella and dance in the deluge. You'll never regret choosing joy.

7 Psychic Tips - to Seduce the Opposite Sex

What do you mean by the term 'psychic'? A person is called as 'psychic' when he posses Extra Sensory Perception (ESP) and such a person is called as the highly intuitive individual because he is gifted with the supernatural powers and sense ability that are not within the reach of common man.

A person with good psychic ability can attract the every goodness in his life say money, luck and love. Who does not want to be attractive? Who does not want to be the center of attraction? Who does not want others to be crazy for him? Or who does not want to the man of the most beautiful woman?

Well, these all comes if you have the psychic power to influence the behavior of others. Many people find seducing the opposite sex as a tough task but it won't be tough if you will be aware of the psychic tips which I am going to discuss now.

Psychic Seduction is nothing but seducing the opposite sex with your psychic abilities. There are three-fold aspects of the psychic power seduction. They are

a. Visualize in your mind the person whom you want to influence.


b. Concentrate on the sexual organs that can cause him/ her to sexual arousal.


c. Perfect focus on the above two things can really lead to the arousal of the person whom you want to seduce psychically.

We all desire for a perfect partner and the most compatible mate that we can most possibly have. But you cannot sit idly and wait for that person to come into your life. If you do so, you actually wake up with your hands empty. So, here is the perfect psychic tips that will help you to seduce the person you want to.

1. Nervousness can spoil your way: Most of the people are tensed while on their first meet or date. Your tension can actually lose your own self and your capacity to take proper decision withers away when you are tense. Women don't find a tense man attractive. They easily guess the thoughts running in a man's mind when they are tense. This is what called as psychic power. So, just relax. Learn to be yourself. Be confident and comfortable in what you are rather than being uncomfortable and unconfident for what you are not. You can impress others when you find yourself impressive.

Now, you must have understood the importance of being relaxed. So, here is the hypnotic exercise to be relaxed and comfortable.

Sit in a calm and comfortable place. Make sure that you are not disturbed. Leave all your negative and disruptive thoughts go away. Close your eyes and simply concentrate on your breathing. Is your breathing fast or normal?

Now, go back the time when you were extremely confident. What were you doing? What gave you the confidence? Feel the same confidence once again at this time. Feel what you felt at that time. Capture those confident feelings once again. Feel what you felt and, hear what you heard.

Now, join your thumb an your index finger and hold it tightly. Capture the confident feelings of your past moment in your thumb and index finger. Now, by the count of 3, open your eyes, feeling light, refreshed and confident. Hold your finger and thumb even after you open your eyes. This is your trigger. Whenever you will feel that you require confidence, hold your finger and thumb, you will get the same confidence because the confidence is now in your subconscious mind.

2. Accept your past mistakes and weaknesses: The worst thing that a man do is, he is not at all willing to accept his own mistakes. He must accept your mistakes because unless you know your mistakes you cannot improve on them. Similarly you must accept your weaknesses so that you can turn them into your highest strength.

3. Make her/ him believe that you are interested in him/ her: To make her like and trust you, you have to make her understand that you like and trust her. Remember even love too needs words. So, learn to express what you feel for that person. The thought of you attracted to her might even be seducing her that very minute.

4. Focus on what you want not on what you don't want: Things come to you when you know what you want. You have to focus on your goal. Your goal is to get that man/ woman. So, concentrate on that not on how, when and where I can get this man / woman. This type of thinking diverts you from your goal. Stay focused and determined.

5. Attitude: This is the most important thing that makes impression – attitude. Learn to have the correct attitude. Every one likes the person with the confident and self-satisfied attitude. You have to convince her that you are confident in your own skin. That is a turn on for the opposite sex.

6. Go getter than goal setter: Be a person who do what he thinks. Thinking is not important, you must have the ability to make that thinking come true. Be a go getter rather than goal getter. Let all the thoughts that restrict you shudder away. While it comes to seducing the opposite sex, the best thing that you can do is to tell yourself that you can certainly do that.

7. First impression is the last impression: It is always said that the first impression lasts long. So, make your first impression a beautiful experience for the opposite sex. You have to caress her by beautifully pressing the parts of her body like hands, arms, holders and making her comfortable in your arms.

This all comes when you personally believe that you can do it. Psychic power gives you the ability to achieve what you actually want to. Remember thinking works more than things. If you know what you want, how much you want, you get it. At last, she will be turned on by your attitude and will be seduced by the idea of you desiring her. Congrats, you have successfully seduced her…

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